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Love can be one of the most positive of emotions. Particularly a person who
has just fallen in love will be extremely happy. Similarly falling out of love
can be most painful, particularly if it was not your decision to end the
relationship.
We all need someone to be close to, to confide in, to touch, to hug and share
things with. While we may normally think of this as a male/female pair it of course
can equally be two or more females who are extremely close. It is all about being
able to share experiences, each others joy, and share confidences.
As far as couples go, research has shown that the more time they spend
together, and the level of companionship determines the amount of harmony
and happiness within the relationship. While many may think of sex as a
part of love, this is not necessarily so, for when a person cannot participate,
or does not wish to and their partner is permitted to seek sex elsewhere
they can still stay as much in love as before. Sex is therefore often an expression
of love or something that happens from a convenience point between two partners. Not
having someone who loves you, may make you feel isolated, depressed, and extremely
unhappy, but its not necessarily their presence that you crave for as you can
stay in love and happy with a person who is separated from you for considerable
time periods as with military personnel, people at college, or where one partner
is held in prison. Love is preferable, but if not available a very close
friendship can ease the unhappiness. |